29 Nov 2000
Response by an American who has worked with Cambodians in the past.
From: Larry Partridge
Hello Navy,
Thank you for contacting me. First Vanak Saovadi
wrote to me regarding the book "First they killed my
father" then you. Armed with your review and
Vanak's remarks I quickly skimmed through the book
again. This time the insult to the Khmer people was
obvious. I can only say that we white Americans can
sometimes be insensitive about these issues. The
majority of us are quite neutral about racial
matters and tend to assume others are too. I guess
I feel a little better about my oversight when I
notice that many Khmer readers also had to look
twice before they noticed. I cannot recall ever
seeing a "flat-nosed, black and kinky-haired" Khmer
individual. If I had, it wouldn't have
mattered...we had more important things to think
about. There aren't many pictures in my book but
any of our Khmer "family" that show are
characteristically pleasant looking, if not
handsome. I could forgive a very young (insecure?)
girl of any race showing a bit of vanity but Miss
Ung should have been mature enough to weed that out
of her story and mind when she wrote.
My book, Flying Tigers over Cambodia, is at the
printer now and should be available very soon. It
is basically about the airlift (rice) from Saigon
into Pochentong airport but I included the fact that
we quickly became as one with the Khmer we had
contact with. I have never before met a people so
brave and, at the same time, so gentle. We, pilots
and crews, were forever changed by what we saw and
felt as we came and went in and out of Phnom Penh.
At the time, I knew little about Lon Nol and his
government so I wrote nothing about the politics of
the time. However, we did pay close attention to
the Rouge as they took every opportunity to shoot
either rockets or artillery at us and our Khmer
helpers on the airport.
I am looking at a beautiful stone (jade?) image of
Prum Muk Buon (Angkor Thom) that was presented to me
by our Khmer ground crew. When the man we called
"The Boss" showed it to me I said how much I liked
it and asked him "how much?" I was really
embarrassed when he frowned then told me it was a
gift from him and his crew. Later we were told
that, because of their contact with us, our entire
Pochentong crew, including a very old man and woman,
were publically beheaded by the Rouge ( I still have
hope this is not true! ). I think of this every
time I look at or touch Prum Muk Buon.
Flying Tiger pilots used vacation time or took
leaves of absence to work at Khmer refugee camps in
Thailand. Many still travel to Phnom Penh, I hope
to be there in March.
I would like to ask if you would consider reviewing
my book. You can find a very brief
description at: www.mcfarlandpub.com/ under book
search...ISBN 0-7864-0768-9. If you agree, please
let me know where to send a copy.
Larry
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